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On Using Your Voice (And Being Too Much)

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Learning As A Letting Go

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In The Beginning, A Dream Is a Fragile Thing…

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Thoughts On Failing

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{Video} Do You Trust Your Horse? A Bigger Conversation

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Investigating Nerves: Finding The More Beautiful Question

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Under Pressure: Why The Wheels Fall Off When The Eyes Are On You

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A Dark Forest Full Of Sand & Hoof Prints: Poetic Musings on Trust & Doubt

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{Video} What good does it do to doubt yourself?

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{Video} A Conversation On Mindful Anger

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Intentions, affirmations & law of attraction: What’s the deal with all that? Here’s where I sit…

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Making Sense Of Free Floating Anxiety

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Learning As A Letting Go

I came to a really great definition of learning recently: Learning is not the process of accumulating, but the process of giving up. The bigger

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Thoughts On Failing

You know, Dee tells me, it seems to me that humans worry about failing a lot. We ride softly across the sand. Huh, I tell

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All this talk about red mares…

All this talk of red mares is nothing new. Feisty. Furious. Opinionated. Difficult. Unpredictable. The category of options in the red mare handbook written by

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Thank Goodness For Them

I had a conversation the other day and something was mentioned to me that I had never heard of before: A silent disco. What, I

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Confidence vs Capacity

Confidence is something that we are all in dynamic relationship with, and I am in constant conversation with riders who tell me that they have

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On Outsourcing Your Power

Outsourcing your power to trainers, clinicians, coaches, people at your barn. It’s a conversation that I am having with riders I work with all the

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Upward Cycles Of Progress

One of the most common “deflation points” I see with riders that I work with are feeling of failure or disappointment around situations “coming back”

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Conversations Around Fear

You know, it can be really tough weighing in on conversations around dealing with fear. There are so many different philosophies that people subscribe to,

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Confidence Requires Midwifery

Developing your confidence requires midwifery. Us humans, we have fooled ourselves into thinking that we need to go about things alone. We maroon ourselves on

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On Pointing Towards Vitality

It’s easy to lose yourself in trainings, theories, and teachings that are focused on finding solutions to your stresses, anxieties, and challenges. But in our

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Community: Joint Care & Belonging

I’ve been thinking a lot about community lately, and we’ve also been having a lot of conversations in JoyRide around belonging, connection, and even loneliness.

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On Robbing Yourself Of Joy

Yesterday, I booked in for a dressage lesson in a week’s time and a working cow clinic not long after that. Truth be known, I

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On Kickback

Kickback. One thing that’s important to realise is that we train people how to treat us. Just like with horses, if you have allowed yourself

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Humour As A Fawn Response

A sense of humour is something that I really value. I know mine has served me well. But I’ve also noticed a tendency I’ve had

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Claim Your Space

At the moment- even more so than usual- there’s a lot of stuff out there ready and willing to soak up your mental and emotional

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On Fear Not Being A Choice

I often get tagged in the comments of various posts in response to someone asking for help dealing with riding related fear. Maybe they’ve had

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Synchronised Movement & The Brain

A theory that I’m working on that brings together three different areas of current (and ongoing) fascination for me: brain mapping, riding as an embodied

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Asking Your Body For Consent

In one of the last sessions of the day I had over the weekend, I was asked a question about dealing with pressure at competition.

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On Spaciousness

Spaciousness. I remember at the beginning of the year, when I was thinking about what I wanted to experience more of, the word that popped

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You are a MindBody

A message pinged into my inbox: “Can you tell me more about the mind-body connection? I don’t feel very connected to my body at all.”

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Relaxation Induced Anxiety

The last week, I’ve been working on some new material for my membership pathway that centres around our ability to rest in good feeling and

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Showing Up As Your SuperPower

Showing up is one of the lesser talked about and seldom celebrated superpowers. And consistently showing up- making your way out to the arena, stables,

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Thawing Out The Freeze

Gentle wiggling I hear you say? What’s that all about? Well, let’s start by getting a better understanding of what freeze is. Freeze is the

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What Energy Is Needed Here?

In a world that idolizes rush, busy-ness and, hyper-productivity, it’s no great surprise that the natural need of our body to rest and cocoon at

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On Cultivating The Wait

Oftentimes, we fail to hear the voice of our intuition, not because it isn’t there, but because the space between the flash of insight and

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No Big Deal-Ness

Us lot are really very good at making a big deal out of things. We love to inflate, exaggerate and think about what things mean,

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Feeling Overwhelmed? Try This.

I’ve been playing with something recently which is a personal take on the Buddhist practice of Tonglen. Tonglen is slightly different to the usual meditation

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Belief Is Learned In Relationship

You know the beautiful thing about belief? It’s learned in relationship. Everything that we have come to understand about the world and ourselves has been

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On Shaking Things Up…

I’ve set my space up to allow me to insert as many moments of movement into the day as possible. One of my favourite things

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No-One Can Break The Ocean

“Every time you think you are broken, know this: you are never really breaking. Noone can break an ocean, darling. All you are doing is

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On Being A Sustainable Presence

Effective horsemanship is as much about learning to be a sustainable presence as it is anything else, and sustainability- the capacity to keep showing up

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On Those Boots…

A non-horsey friend came over the other day and said to me, Jane, what are those boots that you have standing near the end of

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Cultivating Adaptable Boundaries

Boundaries are a complicated subject. We refer them in different contexts all the time without having an embodied understanding of what it really means to

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Let Your Body Breathe Itself

Just take a deep breath. Lengthen your exhale. Slow your breath down. If you’ve ever felt upset or anxious in the saddle, these are all

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Slow Your Body Down

Slow your body down. Anxiety can feel like a permanent state of being when we are outside the window of what we can comfortably deal

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Practicing Self-Compassion

It’s so easy to bash yourself up. It’s so easy to be hard on yourself, to open social media, and compare yourself to every combination

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Vitality As The Benchmark

I just looked up vitality in the dictionary just now and it was defined as this; exuberant physical strength or mental vigor; the capacity for

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Anger: The Essential Fire

Anger has a bad reputation and frankly, I’m bored with it. So many of us have been trained out of our anger. Trained out of

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