Who gets to decide?
Who gets to decide if Jane Pike is good enough as a horse person?
Good enough full stop?
Who gets to decide if Jane Pike’s dreams are valid?
Who gets to decide if Jane Pike is worthy of being a coach?
Who gets to decide if it’s too much, too little or just right?
Who gets to decide that you get another chance?
That you are a worthy competitor, should give that thing you want to do a shot, that your opinions and thoughts are worthy of a public voice?
Who have you given that decision to?
Because most of everyone I talk to has given that decision to someone.
To who, many of us have no idea.
So if you are wondering am I a good enough this that or the other…
… what I want to know is, who gets to decide whether Sarah, Jodie, Kathy, **insert your name here** IS good enough?
Who gets to decide that?
And at what point did you decide to listen to them?