You can’t look out for bad things and expect good things at the same time.
You can’t focus on what’s working and what isn’t working at the same time.
You can’t focus on what you want and what you don’t want at the same time.
It’s one or the other.
If you are focusing on what’s wrong, then you are choosing to focus on that at the expense of what’s right.
If you are focusing on what you don’t want, you are favouring that over what you DO want, and as a result you highlight that in your mind as an object to move towards.
It’s a choice.
If you are here, you can’t be there.